How to Prepare and Survive the Road Ahead

Every time I mention the possibility of what lies ahead, to some people they fight the thoughts and begin to act depressed. They don't want to hear what the truth is or be reminded of reality. Many people would rather live the rest of their days in make believe then face the harsh reality of consequences.

Well for those people having a tough time with the tough times, here's a simple guide.

1. Count 2 new blessings every morning. (you may be blessed with a wonderful family or family member), (you may be blessed with a warm pair of socks) Everybody is blessed with goodness in their life, you only have to open your mind and your heart to find your blessings.

2. Look around you and think about the history of man as an animal on this planet and be thankful you have the opportunity to live during this time full of wonders.

3. Love someone, and I don't mean have sex although that's not a bad way to show love. I mean help someone who doesn't ask for it, be concerned about someone you aren't normally, give someone near or far your attention for a while. Stop thinking about you and for a short while think about someone else and be kind to them.

4. Play, I don't care if playing to you is wrestling the biggest toughest guy you know and getting wooped. If it brings joy to your heart and your mind without seriously hurting you or someone else than do it, just don't over do it. Save some fun for tomorrow.

5. If some thing in life truly bothers you dedicate yourself to understanding the reason it bothers you and create a way to change it. If it cannot be changed then create a way of changing yourself or learn acceptance.

6. Always remember, life is bigger than one person. All things happen have a purpose and we all have a role to play in each others lives. (I have a kidney disease that one of my doctors said will eventually kill me, maybe I have this disease to inspire someone to create a cure, maybe I have it to remind me that life is short and it is precious so I better enjoy it and make the best of the time I have)

7. I have only heard of one man who could walk on water and I don't think you are him, accept your human failings and get over it. None of us are perfect and that is what allows us to forgive, accept and love each other.

God Bless you all

PS: Please feel free to post a comment if you have and addition to the guide.